As Thanksgiving approaches, there’s no better way to celebrate friendship and thankfulness than with a Friendsgiving party. I am sure you’ve seen Instagram posts from past Friendsgivings, heard them discussed or got jealous of the aesthetic ones you’ve seen on Pinterest, so this is your sign to host one for yourself. It’s more than just a meal, it’s a chance to bond, snack, laugh, and reflect on the people who carry us through exams, gym meets, and those unforgettable NDP hallway heart-to-hearts. Here’s everything you need to make your Friendsgiving stylish, organized, and full of heart.
Step One: Theme
Every great gathering starts with a vibe. Whether you go for a pajama party, flannel fest, or a Friends TV show throwback, your theme sets the tone for the night. Think of it like curating a mood board for your night.
To avoid outfit confusion (because no one wants to show up in a maxi dress next to someone in slippers), include a dress code in your invite. Canva and other template tools make it easy to design something cute and clear. Be sure to list the date, time, location, what to wear, and what to bring. A well-crafted invite isn’t just practical; it’s the first spark of excitement that gets guests counting down the days.
Step Two: Decor
Now picture this: string lights twinkling across the ceiling, mini pumpkins nestled on windowsills, and leaf garlands trailing across the snack table. The space should feel like autumn wrapped in a blanket.
Remember those big posters you made in elementary school with Sharpies and glitter glue? Channel that energy. Make a giant “Friendsgiving 2026” sign or a creative menu board that lists all the delicious bites. You can check Pinterest for inspiration. You can go full-on artistic with hand-drawn doodles and fall colors, or keep it simple and bold. Either way, it’s a centerpiece that gets everyone smiling the moment they walk in.
Ask around to see if someone has a digital camera—yes, the kind with a click and flash. It’s perfect for capturing candid moments and aesthetic decor shots that’ll live on in memory books and Instagram posts alike.
Step Three: Snacks
Friendsgiving snacks doesn’t have to be gourmet; it just has to be fun. Think mini pies, popcorn cones, fruit skewers shaped like feathers, or a gratitude trail mix where each guest adds a favorite ingredient. It’s about sharing flavors and stories.
Serve drinks like apple cider, hot cocoa, or sparkling juice in mason jars with cinnamon sticks. Add playful labels like “Pumpkin Potion” or “Cranberry Sparkle” to make your snack table both delicious and fun.
Step Four: Organize
To keep things running smoothly, create a sign-up sheet for food, decorations, and setup/cleanup roles. Assign each guest a category—savory, sweet, drinks, or supplies—and aim for variety. You could even challenge guests to bring themed boards, like color-coded snacks or dessert-only spreads.
If someone can’t bring food, invite them to help decorate or lead a gratitude circle. Everyone has something to offer, and Friendsgiving is about making space for all kinds of contributions.
Plan a few activities to keep the energy high: Just Dance battles, picture taking time, or pumpkin painting. These moments of movement and creativity help everyone feel engaged and included.
A Tradition Worth Repeating
Friendsgiving isn’t just about stuffing your face, it’s about filling your heart. It’s a celebration of the friendships that lift us up, the laughter that echoes through late-night chats, and the gratitude that binds us together.
With a little planning, a lot of snacks, and a whole lot of love, your Friendsgiving will be a tradition worth repeating. So grab your sweaters, bring your pie, and let the gratitude begin.